It has been so long since I posted.  Where have I been?  At a crossroads in life.  Living an episode of Love It or List It.  Do I stay here in the house of my youth?  One of the longest relationships in my life.  Or do I move?  Find a younger model, someone that will take care of me for a change?  Less demanding?  Low maintenance?  Or is it one of those devil you don’t know situations?

To be honest, I love the underdogs.  The mistreated, abused, and neglected homes.  You can be great again…you just need a little love…excuse me while I go buy a truckload of paint and calk.  I call realtors make appointments to see move in ready homes. Which vanish as soon as they hit the pages of Zillow.  I feign disappointment.  Am I really ready for this?  Then I find a house…the one that steals my heart…termite damage…who cares…Fido wrecked the carpet…who cares…rotting siding…I love you.  I imagine myself paintbrush in hand, brushing a wide palette of colors on the walls.  Lavishing cash on my new love. I am smitten, blinded with affection, not seeing the warts.  Yet, looking back with longing at my 87 year old hardwood floors.  Familiar and safe vs. strange and uncertain. Swapping my small sleepy everyone knows everyone town for the city, where people come and go without notice.

So, I reluctantly went to see the house.  The one with only one crappy Zillow photo.  A pile of branches in the driveway.  A dark nondescript backyard photo.  It was love at first sight.  I am convinced it was meant to be.  The realtor can see I am not ready to leave, as I bounce from room to room. He has somewhere else to be.  He says take your time, lock up behind you.  Soon the driveway is full of cars, I have two friends, my son, and two kids exploring the house.  I tell them to envision the cookouts we will have, Sunday dinners in the new dining room, walks to the community pool.  I want them to love the new place as much as I do.  BUT AM I READY FOR A COMMITMENT?  Could this be the biggest mistake of my life?  Then I grin, thinking of the realtor and wonder what he would think of all my guests.  The house probably liked the visitors, it has been empty over a year.

What is a girl to do?




So, I know chalk paint is all the rage on Pinterest.   However, I am not loving it.  Despite the high cost of paint I dove in. Why? I hate sanding. I had heard no priming necessary you can paint over any surface.  NOT polyurethane apparently.  It was like milk on glass. Since, there was no refund on the pricey paint, I soldiered on. Purchasing additional cans of paint.  Eventually, slathering 3 cans of the stuff on.  I had air bubbles, runs, cracks…$150 later and countless, frustrating, hours of my life later.  I think the paint has finally stuck to my built in book shelves.  AM I FINISHED??  NO.  I still need to paint on the waxy topcoat.  Wait 24 long hours for it to dry, then buff it out to acheive a nice glossy surface.  Reapplying as necessary.  What $30 waxy topcoat is not permanant?  I don’t even wax my car.  Now I am committed to shelf waxing.   sigh..pout…brood

10 Things I Love Better than Chalk Paint

  1. The movie Hot Tub Time Machine
  2. A trip to the dentist
  3. Spam (
  4. Cats (:
  5. Colonoscopies
  6. Handymen
  7. Fingernails on a chalkboard
  8. Tornado season
  9. Pantyhose
  10. Diets

Why am I writing on my blog?  To avoid my chalk painting project.

Ugh…I guess I will go wax my shelves and plan to be at home 24 hours later to buff them out.  I wonder what happens if it is 27 hours later or 30.  What is my window of opportunity???  Why can’t it be daylight savings time this weekend?  Would that actually help or give me even less time?  10 things I hate more than chalk paint wax….





The one time of the year that I am asked to make hot rolls.  Because I am renowned for my wonderful award winning hot rolls…uh, no.  Actually, I pick out a random recipe each year from one of those cookbooks put together by a 4-H group or church.  This year it is Belinda’s Light Rolls, OK Belinda, I am counting on you.

Each year as I am mixing a bag of flour into a few cups of liquid with a serving spoon from my dinnerware set, I long for one of those Kitchen Aide mixers in pink. I imagine effortlessly blending cups and cups of flour into a couple of cups of liquid.  The problem is where would I store a gigantic 30 lb mixer?  I’ll bet the Pioneer Woman even has a Kitchen Aide mixer…some pioneer.  Then I couldn’t find my special hot roll making bowl, so I am using the top of a cake carrier to let the dough rise in.

Each year my mother will wistfully say, I really miss my mother’s hot rolls they were so light and yeasty.  The ones made without a recipe, back in the day when all women could make pie crust, bread, egg noodles, instinctively with no recipe book, probably didn’t even measure.  No Kitchen Aid mixer either.

The best thing I make…once a year…is broccoli rice casserole.  Not one of those cheese whizzy or Velvetta ones.  This one is amazing.  Bakes for an hour and a half, a pound of cheddar, eggs, oil, fresh broccoli,rice, cream of mushroom soup, a little milk.  My invention?  No, found in my handy dandy 4-H cookbook.  Probably made by Belinda’s sister.

Anyway, tomorrow is a day of thanks.  Thankful for family and friends.  Thankful for a multitude of blessings great and small.  And hopefully thankful that my hot rolls turned out really great….if not there is always next year.

God bless you this Thanksgiving!

Online Ghost Town

Yes, its like you can see the tumbleweeds blowing by in the wind through my deserted website.  Where have I been?

Working on my house of course!

Spent Veterans Day sanding baseboards…ugh…wearing fogged over goggles, dusk mask, and ear plugs.  Never felt more attractive.  Wondering how long it would take to become brain damaged from lack of oxygen.  Thank God that part is done.  Next plastering and yet more sanding.  I passionately hate sanding…

Today, I bought this kick butt mold killing primer.  NOTE to all- never read the product warnings.  Basically, if you inhale, get any on you, or get any in your eyes; you should rush to an emergency room.  Is the mold or mildew that life-threatening or dangerous?  I feel like I should wear a hazmat suit to paint those little moldy spots.  They probably can’t even sell the paint in California.  What I need is a fearless 70 year old man to brush the paint on.  You know the type.  The type that tosses a cigarette butt into a can of gasoline.   Yeah, the old guy smoking a cigarette, driving around with no seat belt, throwing caution to the wind every step of the way.  The same warning is probably on the toilet bowl cleaner.  This is why I never clean the bathroom…too dangerous.

Hopefully, I will be finished, by the end of the month.  Who am I kidding?  This is going to take FOREVER!!!

I hate you Bob Villa, you made an old house seem like a fun adventure. *sigh*  I always wanted to marry Bob Villa, next best thing to a rich man.

No Kidding…This Really Happened

OK…Cool thing about my town, they are always filming some movie here.  Two in my neighborhood.  Once there was a catering truck out on the street, guys dressed like gangsters, and cars from back in the day right outside my door.  The second time there were cars from the 50’s and a wardrobe truck on the street.  Right now there is a Western being filmed in town.

Anyway, Friday I get a letter saying my house is under consideration to be used in a film, if I am interested.  Well, of course my house is totally junked out…another project in process.  Old living room furniture shoved into dining room, backroom furniture shoved into bedroom. I hesitate then figure what the heck and call back. Amazing how much you can get done in a couple of days when someone is coming to check out your house. Today someone came by to photograph the inside of my house.   Fortunately, they were thin enough to squeeze through my furniture maze.  Wow, my house could be famous!!!

Times like this I long to be thinner,  just in case some celebrity starts hanging out at my house. So, of course I ate a salad for lunch…tacos for dinner (a taco is like a salad right?).  Then I watched Dancing with the Stars and imagined myself on the show, after my house blog catapults me into celebrity status.  Louis van Amstel will be my dance partner.  Yep, the guy paired with people that don’t have a prayer of winning.

We will see….

Rain, Lotsa Rain

So, after pottery class, I am greeted by torrential rain.  And of course I need gas.  Nothing like a nice cold outdoor shower to cool you waaaay down.  Feet soaked by the mini rapids shooting past my car. The road to the gas station is completely covered in water, if you can’t see the road you don’t have to stay in the lines, right?…it’s like a toddler coloring.  The gas station side of town is plunged in darkness, can I even get gas?  I have to say there are few things sadder than darkened golden arches, no after class snack for me.  *sigh*

Luckily, my gas station must have some back-up power.  I read the warning messages, before getting gas… turn off your engine, don’t use your cell phone, beware of static electricity.  No warnings about getting gas in the middle of a lightening storm.  I figure I am safe.  Because there is no such thing as a stupid warning, if it’s not there, it’s not dangerous.  Don’t you like those signs that ask: Hey, did you remember to bring your baby or did you forget and leave them in the sweltering car?  That’s the job I want, writing warning signs for the clueless.

Fortunately, I survived the gas station/electrical storm scenario.

Only to risk death by hyperthermia as my soaked body enters my icy cold refrigerated house.



Finally AC…now that summer is almost over.  On the flip side, I won’t freeze this winter.

And I got into Battle of the Bowls!

I feel a little dull now.  Working on another room.  Contemplating repairing drywall cracks, caulking, painting….The most challenging thing is I am doing some exterior painting.  My friends look at me like I am nuts.  But really what is the difference?  Paintbrush and a can of paint.  Seems pretty basic to me.  Even the guy I hired to get me started suggested I could have this young spry guy do the outside painting.  Hopefully, this is not one of those times when I go man, what was I thinking.  It really is harder to brush on paint in the elements.

I am feeling a little cold, I need to turn down that AC, feel like I am in a refrigerator.





Sleepless in the House of Many Colors

So five AC guys later…still no central air.

I know most people think if they could just win the lottery they would buy a gigantic house.  ME…I think, hey, I could fix my house.  Maybe I could buy a skinny little heat and air guy…oh, yeah, I think that is called human trafficking.  Just my luck, I win the lottery and immediately end up in prison.  I would be featured on that show about people who win the lottery and ruin their lives.

I am sure if I ended up on TV it would be some terrible show like “Snapped”, “Hoarders”, “48 Hours Mystery”, or “Biggest Loser”.  I am imagining myself standing on that podium in a sports bra. Followed by a tearful story about my emotional eating due to abandonment by heat and air men.  Anonymity not such a bad place to live.


Block You

When was setting up my blog there was this section, I think it was to type words to block malicious senders from your site. If it wasn’t then I am a little embarrassed, because I typed in every filthy work I could think of.  Afterwards I felt really dirty and in need of a shower.  Hopefully this effort has blocked one or two people.  I suppose an obvious word to have included is Viagra.  Why does anyone need Viagra anyway? For goodness sake get a hobby, take a walk, fly a kite…stop being so stinking one dimensional.  Become a handyman!  Maybe not my handyman, but someone’s handyman.  Run for office.  Eat green eggs and ham.  Think of all the things you are missing out on.

Maybe you could paint your house a lovely shade of pink.



I have decided all the competent handymen have shows on HGTV.  I watch those shows where home miracles are performed.  I come to believe home improvement and home repairs are within my grasp. One day I realize snagging an amazing handyman is as likely as dating a Hollywood movie star. What I need to do is get on one of those shows. Is it possible that they would have a show featuring HAC guys?  The show could be called Air Conditioning Impossible.  I volunteer to be on the first episode.  Here is the drama leading up to my rescue by the larger than life HGTV celebrities with solutions to all your housing problems.

After creating questionable pathways to the crawlspace of my house.  I finally get two local heat and air guys to come over.  I took off two days to be there while the work was being done.  I am fantasizing about cool air wafting from my vents, toasty winter nights. No dice. The guys came, they said it would be super expensive, if they would even do it.  I call the company later that day hoping for some positive feedback.  I am a pariah.  An office with only 3 employees has no idea as to the whereabouts of the others.

SO in a act of desperation I call the heat and air company that I have worked with forever.  I ask where I am at on the waiting list .  They explain there have just been so many heat and air emergencies…other more desperate individuals than me that have taken precedence.  I ask, so how long have I been on the waiting list…SINCE APRIL!!!  IT IS JULY!!!!  I pretend to not be offended, that this wait is perfectly normal.  Hey, I am happy to wait, more than happy.   I patiently explain that it is pretty DARN hot here. Heck,  I could host revivals in my house, just imagine eternity in this kind of heat.  Yep, no central air in hell.  My house could be a very effective evangelical tool.  I am shocked the heat and air people show mercy on me and will have someone stop in on Tuesday evening…just to take a look.  I thank God, that somehow the disparaging remark I made about my heat and air provider were somehow not posted on  Angie’s list . Angie’s List a great way to burn bridges.  Maybe, if this last ditch effort doesn’t work out I could look for a competent arsonist on Angie’s List.  Oh, I guess that would be Craig’s List.

ENTER AMAZING HGTV HOME IMPROVEMENT CELEBRITIES EVERYTHING IS CLEVERLY RESOLVED IN 40 minutes!!!!  Life is golden again…all is right with the world.

Back to reality.  I wonder if my boss is going to stop believing next time I take off yet another day to deal with the HAC situation.  He will start looking at me like that employee that has killed off grandma numerous times.  Unemployment would definitely put a damper on my efforts to get things rolling with an HAC guy.

Maybe I will start looking forward to work, a place crawling with HAC guys.  Apparently HAC guys have no problem climbing on roofs.



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